4 I thank my God always, making mention of you in my prayers, 5 because I hear of your love, and of the faith which you have toward the Lord Jesus, and toward all the saints; 6 and I pray that the fellowship of your faith may become effective through the knowledge of every good thing which is in you for Christ’s sake. 7 For I have come to have much joy and comfort in your love, because the hearts of the saints have been refreshed through you, brother.
The previous year has been a year of challenges on a variety of fronts, personally and professionally. I am thankful for the support, love, and partnership of the church with me and my family. The church has demonstrated the love of Christ through prayers, generosity, and partnership.
That is one of the benefits of being a part of a church family. Sometimes you are the one being a blessing to others, and other times you are the one receiving the blessing. I’m including the piece I wrote for the Wallingford News earlier this year with regard to being a part of a church family to share the reasons why it matters, and to encourage you to invite others to be part of the family here in Wallingford.
My hope and vision is that Sunday School, special Bible Studies, fellowships, and ministry opportunities will increase in the coming year. I am also praying that the commitment that many have made to reading through the Word of God will have an impact on the life and ministry of the members and the church. Here are somethings to consider being a part of as they progress:
- Wednesday Night Prayer via SKYPE.
- Sunday School at 9:30 (September – May)
- Bethel Camp Meeting (July 3-9 – Pastor Dave Preaching)
- Vacation Bible School – “THE CAVE”
- Women of Worth Ministry (periodically)
- Ironmen Men’s Ministry (in planning stage)
Borrowing from Paul, I close with this prayer: (Philemon 1.6)
I pray that the fellowship of your faith may become effective through the knowledge of every good thing which is in you for Christ’s sake.
Points from the Pastor’s Pen
-Dave Bentley, Wallingford Baptist Church
Why does being a part of a church family make a difference?
I love the church. It’s the center of my life and has been since childhood. I grew up in the church. Every time the doors were open I was there. It’s the place where I was led to the knowledge of God, where I learned about the life and death of Jesus Christ, and where I gained the knowledge of salvation and eternal life through faith. It’s where I learned how to pray, how to sing, how to worship, how to love, and how to serve. It is where as a young man I experienced the leading of the Spirit of God directing me to a life of ministry. I met my wife through youth activities in church. We raised our children in the church, and now our grandchildren, too. The church touches every part of my life—in fact you could say it is my life.
People tell me that they are glad that has worked out for me, but it’s not for them. Many claim that they can’t find any relevance in the church to their life. I wonder, however, if people have really explored what is available to them through participation in the life of the church. Here are just a few things that the church offers, and that most people I know can benefit from:
- A family to belong to.
- Wisdom to live by.
- Help in times of need.
- Lessons that impact life.
- Connection with something greater.
- Knowledge of life and eternity.
People spend so much time and effort finding reasons and excuses for not being part of a church family. If only they could invest a portion of that energy in looking for a church to connect with in their life, I am convinced that they would find a place to belong and a mission in which they could participate.
Perhaps First Baptist Church of Wallingford is not the church they would choose. Believe it or not, that is not my purpose. My goal is that people would find a place where they can connect with God and with other believers. On the other hand, perhaps FBCW is exactly that church for you. You will never know until you step out and try. Find the church in your area where you can connect, and commit to attending for a period of time, at least one or two months consistently. I know you will locate a family of God where you will be welcome and where you can connect and serve the living God.
Dave Bentley, Pastor
First Baptist of Wallingford
A post this morning from my friend Terry Dorsett drew me into Psalm 46. I realized that I have been throwing a little pity party lately because of the physical and financial struggles that my wife and I have been facing. Looking at our struggles so closely has moved my focus from the “very present help in trouble” to just the trouble.
The financial hardship has been significant. The physical struggles, especially for my beloved, have been difficult. The troubles we face are large. However, God is able to work wonders, even in the midst of the troubles. He has seen us through and has provided what is needed at the moment it is needed. He has proven time and time again that He is my refuge and strength, and my very present help in trouble.
Wait….look at that verse again.
God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble.
Did you catch that little word slipped into the message of that verse? It states that God s “a very present help…IN…trouble.” Now, I would much rather that God were “the present help keeping me out of trouble,” but His word assures me that, though I face hardship, He is there with me IN the difficulty.
Financial challenges of car payments, educational pursuits, and a variety of mounting expenses may loom large, but God is “a very present help IN trouble.”
Health problems such as dental expenses, slow recovery, extended illness, and unexplained pains are difficult to bear, but God is “a very present help IN trouble.”
The demands of life and work may seem overwhelming, the piles of unfinished assignments may be expanding daily, and the energy needed to complete the work may seem unavailable, but God is “a very present help IN trouble.”
The message for me, in the midst of all my worry, is that God is PRESENT and IN the midst of my life’s trouble. I do not need to fear, worry, or panic. What I need is to trust and rest in the One who is my REFUGE and STRENGTH.
Pray for me, and I will pray for you as well.
Jerry Falwell declared that “Nothing of eternal significance occurs separate from prayer.” Because of this truth, believers must make prayer a priority. This video offers and invitation and challenge that can transform your life and welcome in spiritual awakening.
Click the link below.
WHEN LIFE IS UNBALANCED
Believe it or not, even the pastor’s life can sometimes seem “out of balance.” At times I’m pressured by the urgent to lose sight of what matters most. Priorities get out of line, boundaries get out of place, and my life gets out of sync. It’s subtle, but can have serious consequences if I let it go.
Here are some of the symptoms that tell me there’s a problem.
- I feel fatigued physically, mentally, and spiritually.
- I’m more easily discouraged.
- I get frustrated and aggravated by small things.
- I lose sight of the blessings and focus on the burdens.
The answer to getting back in balance is found in a variety of places in Scripture.
- Matthew 6.33 reminds me to “seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness.”
- John 15 reminds me that He is the vine, and I am the branch. I need to remain in Him.
DELIGHT, COMMIT, and TRUST
Psalm 37.4-5 offers me three quick keys to regaining balance when I find I’m spiritually unsteady.
4 Take delight in the Lord, and He will give you your heart’s desires.
5 Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will act,
- Delight – Find joy and pleasure abiding in the presence of God
- Commit – Turn it all, everything, over to Him, because He has the best plan.
- Trust – Patiently wait and watch as God works things out His way in His time.
REST AND REMAIN
Resting and remaining appear to be critical components in the spiritually balanced life. Frequently I’m tempted to rush about trying to fix things, worried about what people might think if they see my flaws and realize I am less than perfect. God invites me, then and always, to focus on His priorities, maintain healthy boundaries, and connect (or reconnect) to the Vine, the source of His purpose, presence, and productivity.
John 15.4: Remain in Me, and I in you. Just as a branch is unable to produce fruit by itself unless it remains on the vine, so neither can you unless you remain in Me.
Potholes on the road can damage a car’s tires, causing the vehicle to vibrate as the auto is driven. This happens because the damaged tire is out of balance and needs to have a skilled mechanic repair it and rebalance it. When life’s potholes get us out of balance, we need to pull up to the only one who can get us back in balance, and let Him have us for a while.
This year at the close of Bethel Camp Meeting I asked the students I was leading to write some quick questions for me. This series of Video BLOGS and writings are answers to those questions. Feel free to add your questions to the list in the comment section, or via email at firstname.lastname@example.org .
MY LIFE VERSE: Romans 5:8
God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
For full explanation go to Video at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFgRrgrfAPs
Every day he was teaching at the temple. But the chief priests, the teachers of the law and the leaders among the people were trying to kill him. Yet they could not find any way to do it, because all the people hung on his words.
Luke 19:47-48 (NIV)
This week is a critical week for the disciples of Christ, then and now, as we observe and commemorate this final week of Jesus’ earthly ministry. In a few short days Jesus would go from being hailed as a king to being hung as a criminal. Events happened fast and peoples sentiments changed abruptly, and they still do.
In the verse from today’s reading a quick phrase caught my eye. “the people hung on His words.” Perhaps you are not a religious person, and maybe you are even anti-religious, but would you be willing to participate in a small experiential experiment with me? Find a Bible, or just save this post, and read the following passage each day from now through Sunday. (Verses are at the bottom of this post) As much as the people hung on the words of Jesus, this week I’m going to hang on these experiences with Jesus. The death that paid the price for the evil and sin of man, and the resurrection that shattered the seal of death and opened that way to eternal life. Why don’t you “hang with me?”
John 19.1-18 & John 20.1-18
1 Then Pilate took Jesus and had him flogged. 2 The soldiers twisted together a crown of thorns and put it on his head. They clothed him in a purple robe 3 and went up to him again and again, saying, “Hail, king of the Jews!” And they struck him in the face.
4 Once more Pilate came out and said to the Jews, “Look, I am bringing him out to you to let you know that I find no basis for a charge against him.” 5 When Jesus came out wearing the crown of thorns and the purple robe, Pilate said to them, “Here is the man!”
6 As soon as the chief priests and their officials saw him, they shouted, “Crucify! Crucify!”
But Pilate answered, “You take him and crucify him. As for me, I find no basis for a charge against him.”
7 The Jews insisted, “We have a law, and according to that law he must die, because he claimed to be the Son of God.”
8 When Pilate heard this, he was even more afraid, 9 and he went back inside the palace. “Where do you come from?” he asked Jesus, but Jesus gave him no answer. 10 “Do you refuse to speak to me?” Pilate said. “Don’t you realize I have power either to free you or to crucify you?”
11 Jesus answered, “You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin.”
12 From then on, Pilate tried to set Jesus free, but the Jews kept shouting, “If you let this man go, you are no friend of Caesar. Anyone who claims to be a king opposes Caesar.”
13 When Pilate heard this, he brought Jesus out and sat down on the judge’s seat at a place known as the Stone Pavement (which in Aramaic is Gabbatha). 14 It was the day of Preparation of Passover Week, about the sixth hour.
“Here is your king,” Pilate said to the Jews.
15 But they shouted, “Take him away! Take him away! Crucify him!”
“Shall I crucify your king?” Pilate asked.
“We have no king but Caesar,” the chief priests answered.
16 Finally Pilate handed him over to them to be crucified.
So the soldiers took charge of Jesus. 17 Carrying his own cross, he went out to the place of the Skull (which in Aramaic is called Golgotha). 18 Here they crucified him, and with him two others–one on each side and Jesus in the middle.
1 Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene went to the tomb and saw that the stone had been removed from the entrance. 2 So she came running to Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one Jesus loved, and said, “They have taken the Lord out of the tomb, and we don’t know where they have put him!”
3 So Peter and the other disciple started for the tomb. 4 Both were running, but the other disciple outran Peter and reached the tomb first. 5 He bent over and looked in at the strips of linen lying there but did not go in. 6 Then Simon Peter, who was behind him, arrived and went into the tomb. He saw the strips of linen lying there, 7 as well as the burial cloth that had been around Jesus’ head. The cloth was folded up by itself, separate from the linen. 8 Finally the other disciple, who had reached the tomb first, also went inside. He saw and believed. 9 (They still did not understand from Scripture that Jesus had to rise from the dead.)
Jesus Appears to Mary of Magdala
10 Then the disciples went back to their homes, 11 but Mary stood outside the tomb crying. As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb 12 and saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus’ body had been, one at the head and the other at the foot.
13 They asked her, “Woman, why are you crying?”
“They have taken my Lord away,” she said, “and I don’t know where they have put him.” 14 At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not realize that it was Jesus.
15 “Woman,” he said, “why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?”
Thinking he was the gardener, she said, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.”
16 Jesus said to her, “Mary.”
She turned toward him and cried out in Aramaic, “Rabboni!” (which means Teacher).
17 Jesus said, “Do not hold on to me, for I have not yet returned to the Father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, ‘I am returning to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.'”
18 Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: “I have seen the Lord!” And she told them that he had said these things to her.
GO: EVANGELISM JESUS’ WAY
5 Jesus sent out these 12 after giving them instructions: “Don’t take the road leading to other nations, and don’t enter any Samaritan town. 6 Instead, go to the lost sheep of the house of Israel. 7 As you go, announce this: ‘The kingdom of heaven has come near.’ 8 Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those with skin diseases, drive out demons. You have received free of charge; give free of charge. 9 Don’t take along gold, silver, or copper for your money-belts. 10 Don’t take a traveling bag for the road, or an extra shirt, sandals, or a walking stick, for the worker is worthy of his food. 11 “When you enter any town or village, find out who is worthy, and stay there until you leave. 12 Greet a household when you enter it, 13 and if the household is worthy, let your peace be on it. But if it is unworthy, let your peace return to you. 14 If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that house or town. 15 I assure you: It will be more tolerable on the day of judgment for the land of Sodom and Gomorrah than for that town.
EVANGELISM: CALLING ALL BELIEVERS
Evangelism, it sounds like something that is the job of someone on a church or ministry staff, but it’s really the calling and responsibility of every believer in Jesus. We are all given the command to share the message of Jesus with the people around us. Some will do that in a very public way, but the majority will do this one on one with the people God has placed in their sphere of influence. Whatever platform God has given you to share this Good News with people, there are some elements that are important to grasp.
YOU’RE GOING! (5-7)
Go Where I Tell You to go
- Jesus said “As You Go…”
- He does not say “if,” or “when,” but “as you go!”
- In other words, “You are going!”
Say What I Tell You to Say
“The Message is that God’s kingdom is here…so believe”
MEET NEEDS (8)
- Don’t ever underestimate the Need to Meet Physical Needs
- Read Matthew 25:31-40
- “People won’t care what you know until they know you care”
- It’s hard for someone to see their need for the Savior when they are confronted
- Don’t focus so fully on the Physical that you Neglect the Spiritual
The danger is that we can become so focused on meeting physical needs that we forget or neglect the most important need, a saving relationship through faith in Jesus Christ. This happens very subtly, but the result is catastrophic.
WHY IT’S EASIER TO FOCUS ON PHYSICAL NEEDS
- Meeting Physical Needs is More Welcome
- Meeting Physical Needs offers More Visible Results
- Meeting Physical Needs provides instant Gratification
- Meeting Physical Needs is what people expect of the church
THE RESULT OF FOCUSING ON PHYSICAL NEEDS
- The church ceases to be the carrier of the Gospel
- The church ceases to grow with new believers
- The church ceases to fulfill the Great Commission
- The church ceases
The sad fact is that the landscape around us is dotted with empty church buildings that are no longer functioning as places of Christian fellowship. Travel the roads of Vermont and you will see stately spires rising above the landscape in communities throughout the state, and yet Vermont has the auspicious honor of being designated the “least churched state” in the nation because those stately steeples and numerous church buildings no longer represent communities of faith focused on sharing the message of hope found in faith in Christ.
TRUST HIM (9-10)
God will Meet Our Needs as We Follow Him
Don’t Pack Anything
- If you have ever taken a road trip you know that one of the most important things in preparing for the journey is packing. You want to be sure you have everything you need for the trip, and then some. Suit cases get packed, trunks get loaded, and seats get filled with items you know will be needed and useful on the trip.
- Jesus, however, wants the disciples to understand that all they need is Him. By telling them not to pack anything or bring anything He is calling them to an incredible level of faith and trust. Can they (can we) believe that Jesus really is enough for us? He is assuring them (and us) that He will provide for them as they are going along the way.
And my God will supply all your needs
according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
RESULTS AREN’T OUR RESPONSIBILITY (11-15)
I am not ashamed to say that I like Taylor Swift. Her latest album, 1989, has been a huge success, driven by fun songs and catchy music, she has captured a fan base that was hungering for her sound and her example. In the area of popular music I have few reservations in recommending people listen to Swift’s music.
One of those mega hits is the song “Shake It Off.” In the lyrics Swift encourages people who may have been mistreated or put out by others to “Shake it Off” instead of letting it get them down. Interestingly, this seemingly contemporary advice is the same thing Jesus told His disciples 2000 years ago.
If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that house or town. (Matthew 10.14)
Here’s Why This is Critical
When a person is faced with rejection it becomes very easy to get discouraged a quit. I’m certain that there are many in the pews of the church who were once convinced of the need to tell others about Jesus. Perhaps they were inspired by a sermon or song or Sunday School lesson. Whatever got them ignited, they charged out into the world determined to share the love of Jesus and see people get saved. Unfortunately, not everyone we share the Gospel message with is going to receive it. Not everyone we encounter is going to eagerly listen to us tell the story of Jesus. Sometimes people are going to turn their back on us, ridicule us, and reject us.
Here’s where Taylor Swift’s unintended Biblical reminder comes in. She would say, as Jesus did, “Shake it off.” When people reject or discount what we tell them as we share the Gospel with them, we need to remember that they are not rejecting us, ultimately they are rejecting the grace and love of God found only in Jesus Christ. We simply need to shake it off and keep on sharing. There are others who need to hear the story of Jesus. Our responsibility is to be faithful by going where He sends and saying what He tell us to say. We are to be like the ancient watchmen found in this passage from Ezekiel:
- 1 The word of the Lord came to me: 2 “Son of man, speak to your people and tell them: Suppose I bring the sword against a land, and the people of that land select a man from among them, appointing him as their watchman, 3 and he sees the sword coming against the land and blows his trumpet to warn the people. 4 Then, if anyone hears the sound of the trumpet but ignores the warning, and the sword comes and takes him away, his blood will be on his own head. 5 Since he heard the sound of the trumpet but ignored the warning, his blood is on his own hands. If he had taken warning, he would have saved his life. 6 However, if the watchman sees the sword coming but doesn’t blow the trumpet, so that the people aren’t warned, and the sword comes and takes away their lives, then they have been taken away because of their iniquity, but I will hold the watchman accountable for their blood. (Ezekiel 33.1-6)
Can You Imagine:
- A person who sees a fire but doesn’t pull the Alarm
- An engineer who doesn’t blow the locomotive’s whistle
- An Air Traffic Controller who leaves pilots to fend for themselves
- We are not responsible for how they accept our message (warning),
- but we are responsible to give them the message (warning)
THERE MAY BE DANGERS (16)
Like Sheep Among Wolves
It is more than a little ironic that Jesus, the Good Shepherd, states that He is sending his disciples out as “sheep among wolves.” Everyone knows that the shepherd’s responsibility is to keep the sheep safe from danger and provide protection for the flock. Jesus understands, however, that the little flock He is sending out, both then and now, would face times of peril. He doesn’t want them (or us) to be shocked when difficulty and dangers arise.
Think about it, the people Jesus was sending out, the original 12 disciples, didn’t have an easy road ahead of them. They were going to be rejected, despised, persecuted, and eventually most of them would die because of the message they proclaimed. It does not make sense that we should think that believing in Jesus will miraculously make life easier or better, at least in this world. What it does is assure us of eternity with Christ in the glory of Heaven. THERE we will experience life free from sin, suffering, and sorrow (Revelation 21.3-4).
We must be “Shrewd as Snakes” and “Innocent as Doves”
Because it won’t be easy, and so many things are against the followers of Christ, it is important that we be “shrewd as snakes” while being “innocent as doves.” This is as needed today as it was when Jesus was issuing this marching order to His disciples.
Being shrewd requires that we be creative and clever in finding ways of sharing the message of Christ. We have the most important news the world has ever heard, and the world desperately needs this news. Even though the message is thousands of years old, it’s impact and importance have not waned. In addition, the message has not changed, nor can it be changed. We must find innovative and advanced means of telling the ancient story of Jesus. As we go we are to be proclaiming an unchanging message to an ever changing world. Discovering how to share that message in our community and culture is part of our responsibility as “snakes for the Savior.”
As important as being innovative is that we be people of integrity. Being “innocent as doves” requires that our motives and morals be pure and honorable. Unfortunately many self-proclaimed religious leaders have had little trouble with being “shrewd as serpents” but have fallen short in the area of being “innocent as doves.” As a result people are increasingly skeptical of those professing to speak for Christ. The disciples were sent out to proclaim the message of their Master, and they were given the power and authority to act as He would (Healing, casting out demons, etc…). They were to be a representation to the world of Jesus, and so are we. Therefore, we must have the integrity of Christ as we carry out His mission.
INVITATION – Summary of the Message
- You’re Going – It’s in our DNA as Disciples
- Meet Needs – Physical & Spiritual Needs need to be addressed
- Trust Him – He’s going to Provide as You Follow Him
- Results Aren’t Our Responsibility – Shake it Off and Move On
- There May be Dangers – Expect that Hardship may be ahead
Do You Dare to be Vulnerable?
Being involved in evangelism means making yourselves vulnerable. Therefore, we must be clever and creative in our efforts, but also be people of integrity. We can’t let the negative responses of people dissuade us from the mission of proclaiming Jesus to the world. Shake it off, because there is someone that needs to hear about Jesus’ love for them. Be faithful to go where He calls you to go, and tell people the story of Jesus.