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MEET DAVE "BIG D" BENTLEY - A MAN OF MANY HATS I have worn a lot of hats in the course of my life. I wear the "husband hat" with my wife, Andie, to whom I have been married to for 36 years. I wear the "daddy hat" with my children, Danielle and David. I am privileged to don my "Papa hat" with my six grandchildren. I have served churches in West Virginia, Alabama, Florida and Vermont. For almost 11 years I have been privileged to serve in Wallingford, Vermont. I wear my teacher hat as a professor of English at Northeastern Baptist College in Bennington, Vermont where I have the privilege of also directing the writing center, where I am also pursuing an additional degree in applied theology. My hobbies tend to revolve around my family, so they include, camping, traveling, playing board games, and spending time with them. In addition I enjoy reading, rainy days, listening to and playing worship songs, and cooking.

WHO IS GOD?

“Who Is God?”

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Job 11.7

Can you fathom the mysteries of God?
Can you probe the limits of the Almighty?

I. THE REALITY OF GOD

A. Creation (Psalm 19.1-6; Romans 1.18-32)

Psalm 19.1-4

1 The heavens are TELLING of the glory of God;
And their expanse is DECLARING the work of His hands.
2 Day to day pours forth SPEECH,
And night to night REVEALS knowledge.
3 There is no speech, nor are there words;
Their voice is not heard.
4 Their LINE has gone out through all the earth,
And their UTTERANCES to the end of the world.

Romans 1.18-23

18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who SUPPRESS THE TRUTH in unrighteousness, 19 because that which is known about God is EVIDENT within them; for God made it EVIDENT to them. 20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse. 21 For EVEN THOUGH THEY KNEW GOD, they did not honor Him as God, or give thanks; but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22 Professing to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the incorruptible God for an image in the form of corruptible man and of birds and four-footed animals and crawling creatures.

B. Design (Organization, Order, Purpose)

· The Placement of the Planets (Just a few degrees and…)

· The Language of the People

  • Words have Power
  • Words have Purpose
  • Words have Perseverance

· The Establishment of Periods

C. Man (Moral, Intelligent, Living) (Acts 17.28-29)

Acts 17:24-29 – (In Athens, Referring to the Temple to an Unknown God)

24 “The God who made the world and all things in it, since He is Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in temples made with hands; 25 neither is He served by human hands, as though He needed anything, since He Himself gives to all life and breath and all things; 26 and He made from one , every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times, and the boundaries of their habitation, 27 that they should seek God, if perhaps they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us; 28 for in Him we live and move and exist, as even some of your own poets have said, ‘For we also are His offspring.’ 29 “Being then the offspring of God, we ought not to think that the Divine Nature is like gold or silver or stone, an image formed by the art and thought of man.

D. Philosophy (The idea of a supreme being, God)

II. THE CHARACTERISTICS OF GOD

A. Eternal (Who created God)

B. Freedom (Independent of creation)

C. Holiness (Psalm 99)

1 The LORD reigns, let the peoples tremble;
He is enthroned above the cherubim, let the earth shake!
2 The LORD is great in Zion,
And He is exalted above all the peoples.
3 Let them praise Thy great and awesome name;
Holy is He.
4 And the strength of the King loves justice;
Thou hast established equity;
Thou hast executed justice and righteousness in Jacob.
5 Exalt the LORD our God,
And worship at His footstool;
Holy is He.

D. Unchanging (Mal. 3.6; James 1.17)

Mal. 3.6

“For I, the LORD, DO NOT CHANGE;

THEREFORE you, O sons of Jacob, are not consumed.

James 1.17

Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation, or shifting shadow.

E. Infinite (Limitless – 1 Kings 8.27)

But will God indeed dwell on the earth? Behold, heaven and the highest heaven cannot contain Thee, how much less this house which I have built!

F. Love (1 John 4.7-8)

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 8 The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.

G. Omnipotent (All Powerful – Gen. 17.1) [El Shaddai]

Genesis 17.1

Now when Abram was ninety-nine years old, the LORD appeared to Abram and said to him, “I am God Almighty; Walk before Me, and be blameless.”

H. Omnipresent (Everywhere – Psalm 139.7-11)

Psalm 139.7-10

Where can I go from Thy Spirit?
Or where can I flee from Thy presence?
8
If I ascend to heaven, Thou art there;
If I make my bed in Sheol, behold, Thou art there.
9 If I take the wings of the dawn,
If I dwell in the remotest part of the sea,
10 Even there Thy hand will lead me,
And Thy right hand will lay hold of me.

I. Omniscient (All Knowing – Psalm 139.16)

Thine eyes have seen my unformed substance;
And in Thy book they were all written,
The days that were ordained for me,
When as yet there was not one of them.

J. Righteous (Justice – Psalm 11.7)

For the LORD is RIGHTEOUS; He loves RIGHTEOUSNESS;
The UPRIGHT will behold His face.

K. Sovereign (Supreme – Psalm 135.6)

WHATEVER THE LORD PLEASES, HE DOES,
In heaven and in earth, in the seas and in all deeps.

L. True (Remember that God is Unchanging)

· The Master in the Math

  • Rules of Math are Constant (1+1=2)
  • Rules of Math are Trustworthy (1+1 ALWAYS =2)
  • Rules of Math are NOT Contradictory (1+1 NEVER =3)

M. Unity (One, Indivisible – Dt. 6.4; Eph 4.6; 1 Tim 2.5)

Dt. 6:4 – “Hear, O Israel! The LORD is our God, the LORD is one!

Eph. 4.4-6 – There is ONE body and ONE Spirit, just as also you were called in ONE hope of your calling; 5 ONE Lord, ONE faith, one baptism, 6 ONE God and Father of all who is over all and through all and in all.

1 Tim. 2.5-6 – For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave Himself as a ransom for all, the testimony borne at the proper time.

III. THE NAMES OF GOD

A. Elohim – Sovereign God

B. Yahweh – Covenant God

C. Adonai – Lord God

D. Theos – God (Gk.)

E. Kurios – Lord (Gk)

F. Despotes – Master (Gk.)

G. Father – Relationship with children

IV. THE CHOICE OF FAITH IN GOD

· One of the things about FAITH is that it is an invitation to believe without knowing all the facts at first. It is trusting God with the details.

· At the same time, however, we are expected to learn and grow in our knowledge and understanding of God…who He is…His nature…His will…His calling for us.

Are You Infecting People?

-Pastor Dave Bentley

Generally, when we hear the word contagious it relates to something undesirable; an Illness, a virus, a transmittable disease.  However, we are commanded by God to have a faith that is contagious.  What this means is that, as we live out our faith in our daily lives, when we come in contact with people our life should have an impact on them that draws them closer to God in Christ.  This leads us to a couple of questions that each Christian disciple must answer.

1.  Is my life “infectious?”  Would people want to “catch” what I have?

2.  Who is in my circle of influence that I can infect with the Good News of Christ?

The Apostle Paul recognized two critical things.  First, that if we are going to impact our community and culture for Christ then we need to be engaged with people, all people, even the people that can be difficult to be around (1 Cor. 5.9-10).  Second, that we cannot limit ourselves to just what is comfortable to us if we are going to introduce the lost to salvation in Christ (1 Cor. 9.19-23).

I wonder what might happen if every Christian who reads this would ask those questions and make a decision to become a “carrier” of faith with the goal of infecting as many as possible with the message of grace, mercy, and love found in Jesus Christ.  Take off the surgical masks.  Stop trying to “sanitize” your faith for others.  Be a communicable Christian with a contagious faith.

Blessings,

Pastor Dave

CAPTIVE AND CAPTIVATED: A VIEW OF HUMANITY’S PAST AND PRESENT PURSUITS

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CAPTIVE AND CAPTIVATED:

A VIEW OF HUMANITY’S PAST AND PRESENT PURSUITS

– DAVE BENTLEY

A Project Submitted to Liberty University, Spring 2014

DRIVEN

The pursuits of humanity can leave man either captured or captivated. Whether it is an idea, a prized treasure, or some distant shore on the horizon, man’s many pursuits hold him shackled, the only release realized when the elusive quarry is finally gathered, or death forces closed the eyes of the hunter. These pursuits have been a critical characteristic of man’s experience from the beginning of time. From creation, man has chased things and ideas that have left him with a longing, triggering primal drives. This perpetual pursuit has brought triumph and tragedy. The times may change, but these basic drives have existed from ancient times into modernity. Man has gone to extreme lengths in his efforts to fill these internal voids that leave him hungering and thirsting for more, causing contentment to become a stealthy prey, rarely realized.

There are certain themes that appear in literature which provide an allusion to these primal drives and desires.  Recurring themes that involve man’s pursuit of passion and pleasure, power and position, purpose, and eventually paradise appear in ancient texts and contemporary writing.  This project will research some of the literary references to these characteristics of humanity and show how they are described and either met or unmet in the narratives and poetry of the world. This will not be an exhaustive paper; with the ever-changing landscape of humanity, such an endeavor would be impossible. Rather, this work will offer an introduction and discussion on some of the driving forces of the human experience that have been chronicled in literature and backed up human experience.

The Pursuit of Passion and Pleasure

Man’s pursuit of pleasure often slips into hedonism, but it begins with a longing for companionship and intimacy birthed long before in the Garden of Eden. God purposely designed man for relationship, and for intimacy. This intimacy is not limited to merely the physical and sexual, but emotional and spiritual as well. As man has experienced the longing for close connections (Swindoll, 2000), it has led to the often misguided hunt of the hedonist.

Consider that, as revealed in the book of Genesis, God initially created man without a suitable companion. All the other creatures had mates, but for man no mate was found.

Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him.” And out of the ground the LORD God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the sky, and brought them to the man to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called a living creature, that was its name. And the man gave names to all the cattle, and to the birds of the sky, and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. So the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh at that place. And the LORD God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man   (Gen 2:18-22 New American Standard Bible).

The creator recognized that man needed companionship, and then He set about helping man come to the same realization by giving man the task of giving names to the rest of creation. Through this process, man would notice that he was the only living creature without a compatible mate. Fostering this desire in man was God’s intent. Then, when man’s complement was fashioned, he utters what must have been the first love song, whose lyrics were born in the human heart:

And the man said,
“This is now bone of my bones,
And flesh of my flesh;
She shall be called Woman,
Because she was taken out of Man.” For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed (Genesis 2.23-25).

According to the record of the book of Genesis, sometime after this grand finale of the creation, humanity fell in sin. It has been impossible for man to recover the purity of love’s passion first experienced in the garden. Evil marred sexual expression, causing it to slip into the tawdry and hedonistic headlines of an overly sexualized culture’s news coverage.

In spite of the shame that sin introduced into the realm of human sexuality, intimacy, and passion, humanity continues to hunger for love and sexual fulfillment in physical intimacy and connection. The ancient texts of love poems relate that longing in even the earliest of manuscripts. The pursuit of passion and pleasure grace each pen-stroke. In “Last night, as I, the Queen, was Shining Bright” these steamy words comprise three lines:

“While we by the moonlight indulge our passion,

I will prepare for you a bed pure, sweet, and noble,

Will while away the sweet time with you in joyful fulfillment” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 42).

This oldest of ancient texts reveals a depth of passion that breaks through the expectation of a utilitarian love and romance that offer a glimpse into the often erotic passion that hungers to recapture the purity of those garden days.

Shamhat unclutched her bosom, exposed her sex, and he took in her voluptuousness.
She was not restrained, but took his energy.
She spread out her robe and he lay upon her,
she performed for the primitive the task of womankind.
His lust groaned over her;
for six days and seven nights Enkidu stayed aroused,
and had intercourse with the harlot
until he was sated with her charms (The Epic of Gilgamesh).

There is much affection and commitment demonstrated in some of the ancient texts. Consider this line from “The Voice of the Turtledove Speaks Out,” as the lovers offer this intimate and romantic sentiment. “We said: I shall never be far away from you while my hand is in your hand, and I shall stroll with you in every favorite place” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 44).

Evidence of humanity’s drive for passion and pleasure, while often graphically recorded in literature, is also found in relational science and personal experience. Thought some may deny the validity of this claim, man longs for more than just the sexual pleasure that physical love provides. There is a drive for intimacy and connectedness that is occasionally disguised, or overshadowed, by the seedier pursuit of lust. Man, as well as woman, wants to be loved. As one author related, the way that God designed and created the first couple illustrates this idea (Bonheim, 2014). The writer commented that Eve was not created in the same way God created Adam, perhaps as evidence of God’s intent to reveal in their marriage union His intentional design of love itself. Fashioning Eve from components taken from Adam illustrates the physical and emotional elements of romantic and committed love between man and woman. Regarding the unique design of the romantic and sexual union of man and woman Bonheim writes,

“that love is created of two beings, connected from the start. Just as man was created in

the likeness of God, Eve was created from the body of Adam, holding within her flesh

the divine love that had been issued to humankind by the Creator” (Retrieved 3/20/14).

Humanity continues to strive for social connection, relationship, and love precisely because we have been designed and created to love and be loved. Man may find himself captured or captivated by this lifelong pursuit.

The Pursuit of Power and Position

In addition to man’s drive for physical pleasure and intimacy, there is also captivity found in the climb up the various ladders of human experience in the pursuit of power and position. This is not always a bad thing, as most understand that it is honorable and acceptable to seek promotion in a place of employment and to want to better oneself in their position in life.

However, there are some considerations, especially along the way, as people seek position and power in less than honorable means. One such example from literature comes in The Odyssey, as Telemachus voices his disgust with regard to the suitors who sought his mother’s hand, and his father’s throne.

“Look at them over there. Not a care in the world

Just lyres and tunes! It’s easy for them, alight,

They feed on another’s goods and go scot-free—(Odyssey 1:185-187).

Each of these suitors sought what they had not earned, and were unworthy of by their own lack of merit. Day after day, they invaded the home left unguarded by Odysseus, who was himself captive on a distant island. They devoured Odysseus’ goods while they occupied his house, and sought to occupy both his bed and his throne. These men were driven by a desire for position, but were seeking the easy means of achieving power. Like vultures picking at the remains of carrion left wasted on the side of a highway, these interlopers were scavenging whatever scraps they could from Odysseus’ stores. Unwilling to hunt for themselves, they chose instead to steal.

Indeed, in the experience of humanity there have been myriad men and women who have earned power and position through diligence and hard work. Whether in the realm of business or politics, these people demonstrated their worth and justly earned their advancement. Frequently, these leaders sought office not merely to impress people or find ease in life, but to make life better and to set an example.

In The Analects Confucius alludes to the difference between people who aspire to position and power for honor and those who do so for recognition. “In old days men studied for the sake of self-improvement; nowadays men study in order to impress other people (Analects 14:25).” The irony of Confucius writing “in the old days” makes this record almost comical, since it was written two millennia ago. What he says, in essence, is that people who studied for honorable reasons did so to bring wisdom and knowledge to their positions of leadership. Unfortunately, as “The Teacher” laments, more people were seeking wisdom and understanding for profit than for provision.

Peace Versus Power, A Counter Balance

Literature, particularly that of The Medieval Orient, counters the primary premise put forth here of humanity’s drive for position and power by alluding to people who sought to escape the responsibility and prestige that positions of power might offer rather than aspire to it. This shift in man’s priorities was due, in part, to the increasing realization that the morality of society was decaying and becoming increasingly corrupt, and this was evident especially in the leadership and nobility. When faced with this decaying morality in society and corruption among its leaders, coupled with the reality of increased conflict and disunity among people, the people sought refuge by retreating from positions of prestige and power, in favor of a simpler and more ordinary life (Damrosch & Pike, 2009). Rather than power, they pursued peace.

“Don’t take the big carriage:

You’ll just get dusty.

Don’t ponder a hundred worries:

You’ll just become ill.” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 12).

The above poem echoes the sentiments of the Biblical passage:

O Lord, my heart is not proud, nor my eyes haughty;
Nor do I involve myself in great matters,
Or in things too difficult for me.
Surely I have composed and quieted my soul;
Like a weaned child rests against his mother,
My soul is like a weaned child within me.
O Israel, hope in the LORD
From this time forth and forever (Psalms 131: 1-3).

Positions of power and prestige may indeed bring fame and fortune, but they also bring significant responsibility. These writers determined that the best course for them was to deny the drive in favor of serenity. However, as Kamo no Chomei’s notes in his essay, “An Account of a Ten-Foot-Square Hut” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009), the shift in pursuit from power and position to peace is not without its difficulties and challenges. His essay describes how one man, disenfranchised with life because of natural disasters, famine, and man’s inhumanity toward man, retreated to a simple 10×10 foot hut and awaited the promised rebirth into the Buddhist heaven that awaited those who had released all attachments in the world and were experiencing that powerful peace and contentment. However, as Kamo no Chomei relates, the release of the attachments of one world, that of the capital, was simply replaced by the attachment and pursuit of the tranquility and pleasure of his tiny retreat. He discovered that the drives and pursuits of humanity still exist, even though they may be slightly shifted.

The Pursuit of Purpose

Why are we here? From the beginning of humanity, man has sought to understand his purpose and the reason that things happen as they do (Warren, 2002). The religious declare that man is here for God. The humanists counter that man exists for man. The fatalist laments that there is no purpose or reason, rather man lives and dies, the end—although this lack of purpose actually becomes a purpose.

Literature has also offered an answer to man’s historic pursuit of purpose. As with the various philosophies and theologies of the world, Literature’s response has varied in relation to era and age, as well as the variety of writers who have given their answer to the quest.

In The Odyssey, it appears that man’s purpose is to serve as fodder for the entertainment of the gods. Humanity blames the gods for their ills, even when the actions of men are truly at fault. As the following passage illustrates, however, man may blame the gods, but is often their own carelessness that leads to their torment.

From us alone, the say, come all their miseries, yes,

But they themselves, with their own reckless ways,

Compound their pains beyond their proper share (Odyssey 1:38-40).

The example given relates to the actions of the sailors traveling with Odysseus who had killed and devoured the prized cattle of the Sun.

“the recklessness of their own ways destroyed them all,

The blind fools, they devoured the cattle of the Sun

And the sungod wiped from sight the day of their return (Odyssey 1:8-10).

The poets and wisdom writers of The Medieval Orient would report that man’s purpose is the pursuit of wisdom and peace. Confucius’ opening statement in Analects record the following from the Chinese Master: “To learn, and at due times to practice what one has learned, is that not also a pleasure (Analects 1:1). Confucius would also write, regarding the pursuit of man’s purpose, “Learn as if you were following someone whom you could not catch up, as though it were someone you were frightened of losing (Analects 3:17).”

The pursuit of wisdom as an understanding of man’s purpose, according to Confucius, would result in strong moral and ethical conduct (Kyung, 2004). Many texts contained lessons for developing moral values and conduct. The Bible, the Koran, and myriad other religious writings offer teachings in upright living according to their standards. The Fables of Aesop and children’s fairy tales provide morals and instruction for living.

Confucius’ teachings provided lessons that not only imparted instruction, but offered models and advice. In the Analects he said, “When one comes to knowledge but does not sustain it through ren (this is love or the ideal conduct), he is sure to lose it. (Analects 5:33).” Gaining knowledge and understanding alone, therefore, was not sufficient. Rather, he would state that a person achieves his or her ideal state by putting into practice the knowledge acquired by living in accordance with it (Kyung, 2004). In modern phrasing, man’s pursuit of purpose would ultimately reveal that he must “Use it or lose it.”

A person’s pursuit of purpose can be summarized in the simplest, yet most difficult question to ever parted ones lips. “Why?” From the repetitive chattering of a toddler tugging at pant legs it may be little more than a nuisance. However, from the mouth of one suffering in grief it asks a question that often remains unanswered.

In the poetic record of an experience, which sounds very much like that of Job in the Bible, Anne Bradstreet pens her emotions and anguish at the loss of their home in the poem “Upon the Burning of Our House, July 10, 1666.” Though she does not write the question directly, a reader can readily recognize that the query is, nonetheless, present, ready on the threshold of her lips, as “to my God my heart did cry to strengthen me in my distress.” So much like Job, she too notes that she

“blest his Name that gave and took,

that lay’d my goods now in the dust:

Yea so it was, and so ‘twas just.

It was His own: it was not mine;

Far be it that I should repine.”

Far more often, in times of sorrow and grief, man begins to search for purpose and reason as he seeks an answer to why things have happened in this way or that. In recent experience, one can look to the events of September 11, 2001 to find a nation of shocked citizens all pondering the same thing, “What was the purpose of this? Why did God allow this to happen? Why?”

Man pursues purpose, and often that pursuit only reveals more questions. Solomon, the world’s wisest king, considered life and called it “vanity, a chasing after the wind” (Ecclesiastes 1.14). It can be assumed that he had faced the “Why?” question in his life. He concludes his journal of his own pursuit of purpose with these words:

The conclusion, when all has been heard, is: fear God and keep His commandments, because this applies to every person. For God will bring every act to judgment, everything which is hidden, whether it is good or evil (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).

Finding Purpose in Pain

It is often the most difficult and trying experiences of life that reveal man’s purpose. For example, the heroes that humanity heralds are often only heroes based on their self-sacrifice. They gave for the sake of others. In The Epic of Gilgamesh it is learned that the purpose of Enkidu, the man once wild and dwelling in the forest with the animals, would be to protect Gilgamesh.

“The one who goes on ahead saves the comrade,

The one who knows the route protects his friend,

Let Enkidu go ahead of you;

He knows the road to the Cedar Forest,

He has seen fighting, has experienced battle.

Enkidu will protect the friend, he will keep the comrade safe (Gilgamesh, 3:4-9).

Jesus said, “No one has greater love than this, that someone would lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13, Holman Christian Standard Bible). Enkidu demonstrated this sort of love for his comrade, Gilgamesh. Ultimately, regardless of personal strength an heroism, the former man-beast would die as a result of his exploits with Gilgamesh. Perhaps, as this text illustrates, the answer for man’s pursuit is love for others. After all, the Bible states that the greatest commandment is to “love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself” (Luke 10.27, NASB).

If loving God and loving your neighbors is the ultimate purpose in life, then one of the world’s contemporary heroes, Todd Beamer, captured that life purpose, albeit through his own sacrifice and death.

On the morning of September 11, 2001, Todd Beamer boarded a plane bound for San Francisco. Beamer had no idea that he would soon face a terrible challenge and have to make a critical decision that would result in a high cost, but an even greater value in terms of innocent lives spared.

Shortly after takeoff, hijackers took that flight and three others. The hijackers flew two of those planes into the Twin Towers in New York City. A third crashed into the side of The Pentagon in Washington, DC. It became clear that Beamer’s flight would be used as a weapon against people somewhere on the ground. Determined “not be pawns in the hijackers’ suicidal plot” (McKinnon, 2001) Beamer, along with the other passengers on the flight rose up and fought the hijackers. All that we know about what happened inside the plane is that the aircraft, most likely aimed at a target in Washington, crashed in a field in Pennsylvania, killing everyone aboard. Beamer’s last recorded words on a call from the plane, “Let’s Roll!” captured the nature of a hero’s heart, overflowing with love for unknown neighbors on the ground below, and gained the attention, and affection, of the world.

The pursuit of purpose is a life-long occupation, and there are many facets, differing based on each individual. The journey to discovery provides clues along the way, for the one who will seek with open eyes and open mind.

Pursuit of Paradise

Another pursuit that both captures and captivates humanity is the pursuit of paradise. Religions, cultures, and generations may use different terminology, but the pursuit is the same. Each seeks what some refer to as heaven, or eternal life, some ethereal place that is beyond the temporal earthly realm. In his pursuit, man longs for the answer to the question recorded in the Gospel of Luke: “Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life” (Luke 10.25, HCSB).

As with the previously referenced pursuits, this hunt for heaven and immortality will be different for each person based on theology, philosophy, and experience. As such, one finds the content of literature divided based on the context of the author and the place and period of the writing.

Before considering the pursuit of paradise and immortality, one must first recognize that man is mortal and come to grips with that mortality. T. S. Elliot reflected on his mortality by referring to the brevity and fragility of life in “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock.” He writes, “I have measured out my life with coffee spoons” (v. 51). This is a clear reference to the shortness of life. He chooses one of the smallest of utensils as a metaphor for life’s brevity. He also writes, with regard to the vanity of man’s attempts to prolong life:

“But though I have wept and fasted, wept and prayed

Though I have seen my head (grown slightly bald) brought in on a platter,

I am no prophet—and here’s no great matter:

I have seen the moment of my greatness flicker,

And I have seen the eternal Footman hold m y coat and snicker,

And in short, I was afraid” (vv. 81-86)

Indeed, death is the constant companion of the mortal. Because of that awareness, man seeks the assurance that there is something beyond this life. The pursuit of paradise is, in some way, man’s final attempt at prolonging life, but in a perfect and eternal way.

If they do nothing else, religious texts certainly have the mandate of providing instruction related to how a person can achieve eternal life, heaven, Nirvana, or whatever other terminology is used. However, they do not have the mandate to be similar to other religious writings, and so there are wide ranging descriptions of the eternal dwelling places and the requirements for reaching them. For monotheists, such as Muslims, Jews, and Christians, heaven is the dwelling of God, and the ultimate goal of the followers of the teachings in their hallowed writings. Though their image of heaven may be common, the path to paradise is not. Even among their adherents, there are differences of doctrine related to how one may gain immortality.

Heaven is not a subject limited to just sacred texts. In ancient stories, writers and their readers viewed heaven as the dwelling of the immortals. Based on the imagery of The Odyssey and Aenid, narratives written to an audience of polytheists, one might consider the mysterious kingdom as some sort of hall where the gods sit around devising schemes to torment or benefit humanity. In the end, death would lead to a decision on a person’s eternity made by the gods based on the conduct and heroism exhibited during their life.

For writers in the Oriental tradition, paradise might be found at the end of a mysterious path nestled in the peach blossoms as it was for the fisherman in “Peach Blossom Spring” by Qian. Although he had discovered a hidden path to paradise, he left and returned to his life. When he attempted to revisit the hidden valley, he discovered he was unable to locate the path and could not return.

For some, as Li Bo shares, paradise is found in the beauty and majestic serenity of the mountains:

“They ask me why I live in the green mountains.

I smile and don’t reply; my heart’s at ease.

Peach blossoms flow downstream, leaving no trace—

And there are other earths and skies than these” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 93).

If it is true that troubles in life can occasionally cloud ones view of their eternal goal, this may explain the struggles of faith that beset Anne Bradstreet as she penned the letter “To My Dear Children.” In the letter, she chronicles some of her struggles with faith in light of the conditions and experiences she has had in the world. However, she closes with words indicating that, though her faith may at times waiver, her eternal home is still secure.

“Return, O my Soul, to thy rest, upon this rock Christ Jesus will I build my faith, and if I perish, I perish; but I know all the Powers of Hell shall never prevail against it. I know whom I have trusted, and whom I have believed, and that He is able to keep that I have committed to His charge.”

Man’s pursuit of paradise, in whatever form that may take, has the potential to consume him. The danger could be that people are so focused on the pursuit that they forget to live while they are alive, and may miss the target for which they aim. Perhaps it was the brevity of life and the vanity of being too heavenly minded to be of any earthly good that Tao Qian was thinking of as he wrote in “The Return”:

It is all over—

So little time are we granted human for in the world!

Let us then follow the inclinations of the heart:

Where would we go that we are so agitated?

I have no desire for riches

And no expectation of Heaven.

Rather on some fine morning to walk alone

No planting my staff to take up a hoe

Or climbing the east hill and whistling long

Or composing verses beside the clear stream:

So I manage to accept my lot until the ultimate homecoming.

Rejoicing in Heaven’s command, what is there to doubt?

The Pursuit Proceeds

Throughout life, man pursues pleasure, position, purpose, and paradise. These pursuits have the potential of holding man captive or leaving him captivated. While this is not an exhaustive work on the subject, it provides information on these pursuits as revealed in literature and experience and provides some definition and application to the knowledge of the pursuit.

Not everyone will find what he is searching for in life. For example, those fortunate enough to find love, passion, the pleasure of physical intimacy with a beloved spouse, the pursuit may be captivated, and fulfilled. Others, however, may search for these things their whole life, but never find what they long for most. Often their hunt for love is fruitless because they fail to comprehend what real love is.

This theory is true of all man’s pursuits. It is difficult to discover passion and love is one does not know the definition of real passion and true love. The same may be said of position and power, especially if the seekers motivation is selfish and self-serving. One who is pursuing purpose may never find it if they fail to notice the indicators along the path of their life that would help them in defining their own purpose. The pilgrim in search of paradise might miss the pathway if they do not take the time to be cognizant of what is happening in life, and follow the current, often in an opposing direction, of the flow toward eternity.

References:

Bentley, D. (2014) Unpublished Writings from ENG656 at Liberty University Online. March- May, 2014.

Bonheim, W. (2014) Discussion Board Post for ENG656 at Liberty University Online.

Retrieved from: http://learn.liberty.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=/webapps/blackboard/execute/courseMain?course_id=_11067_1 on March 20, 2014.

Chapman, G. (1992). The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt

Commitment to Your Mate. Chicago, IL: Northfield Publishing.

Cueva, E. P. (1999). Recent research on the ancient novel. The classical bulletin 17(1). 85-97.

Damrosch, D. & Pike D. L. (2009). The Longman Anthology: World Literature. (Vols. A-F,

2nd. Ed.) New York, NY: Pearson.

Kyung, H. K. (2004). An attempt to elucidate notions of lifelong learning: Analects-based

analysis of Confucius’ ideas about learning. Asia Pacific Education Review. 5(2).

117-126.

McKinnon, J. (2001) The phone line from Flight 93 was still open when a GTE operator heard Todd Beamer say: ‘Are you guys ready? Let’s roll.’ Printed in the Post-Gazette. September 16, 2001. Retrieved from: http://old.post-gazette.com/headlines/20010916phonecallnat3p3.asp

Swindoll, C. (2000). Intimacy with the Almighty. Nashville, TN: Tommy Nelson.

Szalavitz, M. & Perry, B. D. (2010) Born for love: Empathy, the brain, and human connections Retrieved from: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/born-love/201003/touching-empathy

Warren, R. (2002) The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth am I here for? Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.

How Far is Heaven?

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The Story of Man’s Struggle to Measure up to

Throughout history the trait of mankind’s pride and self-sufficiency has been the sin that most often drives the population from salvation and eternity with God. This trait is evident in the hero stories that man has composed in antiquity and modern day. Woven into the fabric of the lines of the writing is the idea that man has the capacity to earn favor with the gods and repair damage that previous acts of rebellion and selfishness have caused. Christianity, as it is revealed in the New Testament writings of the Bible, offers a strikingly different perspective on the human condition and the path to redemption and restoration with God’s favor.

Meredith Sprunger (n.d.) compiled a concise summary of major world religions that reveals the various means to salvation that each ascribes to. With regard to most religions there were acts of sacrifice, obedience, impulse control, and ritual that were to be religiously followed in effort to attain eternity. For example, followers of Islam are required to submit to the will of Allah and live according to the “Five Pillars.” This seems reasonable, and it allows for man’s efforts to be recognized and rewarded, thus fulfilling the need for pride and self-sufficiency.

Buddhism, on the other hand, involves more in the realm of mind and impulse control. According to Sprunger’s (n.d.) chart, the Budhist’s path to eternity requires: “Nonattachment to the world; Follow the eight-fold path; Self-effort; Salvation is through reincarnation and working with the laws of karma; Mahayana Buddhism has deities which function as saviors”

(http://www.urantiabook.org/archive/readers/religion_belief_comparisons.htm).

Within this structure there is an appeal to selflessness that satisfies the self-imposed religious need for sacrifice and self-denial. For man to receive the reward of eternity he must essentially demonstrate that he is worthy of eternity by improving himself over the course of a number of lifetimes.

In these religious systems the divine, the immortal, the gods become impressed with the life lived by the practitioner and recompense their obedience and virtue with entrance into whatever eternal paradise or Nirvana awaits them. In the epics of literature there is the similar theme of man attempting to earn favor with the gods through feats of strength, sacrifice, bravery, and demonstrating their own worthiness. Slaying mythological beasts, claiming impossible treasures, offering costly sacrifices, appeasing an offended immortal, and impressing the various deities were the way that men earned favor with the gods.

Biblical history bears evidence of this sort of behavior, even among the Israelites who sinfully worshipped the gods of neighboring countries in efforts to please them and gain a benefit. In the story of the prophet Elijah’s confrontation on Mount Carmel with the prophets of Baal there is suggestion of a ritual that included frantic shouting, dancing, and self-mutilation:

26Then they called on the name of Baal from morning till noon. “O Baal, answer us!” they shouted. But there was no response; no one answered. And they danced around the altar they had made.
27 At noon Elijah began to taunt them. “Shout louder!” he said. “Surely he is a god! Perhaps he is deep in thought, or busy, or traveling. Maybe he is sleeping and must be awakened.” 28 So they shouted louder and slashed themselves with swords and spears, as was their custom, until their blood flowed. 29 Midday passed, and they continued their frantic prophesying until the time for the evening sacrifice. But there was no response, no one answered, no one paid attention. (1 Kings 18.26-29, New International Version, emphasis added).

The narrative continues with Elijah demonstrating God’s faithfulness and power, without regard to his own ability. This story is one of many that reminds the world that God does not want to be impressed with man’s ability and strength, but rather desires that man would be impressed with His power and faithfulness. Elijah simply prepares the way for God to act on top of the mountain. His prayer and actions demonstrate his faith in God.

36 At the time of sacrifice, the prophet Elijah stepped forward and prayed: “O LORD, God of Abraham, Isaac and Israel, let it be known today that you are God in Israel and that I am your servant and have done all these things at your command. 37 Answer me, O LORD, answer me, so these people will know that you, O LORD, are God, and that you are turning their hearts back again.”
38 Then the fire of the LORD fell and burned up the sacrifice, the wood, the stones and the soil, and also licked up the water in the trench.
39 When all the people saw this, they fell prostrate and cried, “The LORD–he is God! The LORD–he is God” (1 Kings 18.36-39)!

What Must I DO to Inherit Eternal Life?

The early epics of literature, the efforts of the religions of the world, and the nature of humanity all beg for an answer to the question, “What must I do?” The expectation is that some great act or show of devotion must be required in order to appease God and garner His favor. The unlikely answer comes in the form of Jesus of Nazareth and a revelation that God loves us, even in our sinful state. As the apostle Paul wrote in Romans 5.6-8:

“You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Powerless seems quite distant from the realm of heroe like Oddyseus and Aeneas amid their bravery and strength. Ungodly doesn’t seem to relate to the wisdom of men like Confucius, or the honor and obedience of the exiled Rama. Sinner isn’t the first thought to enter the mind when contemplating the piety and religious zeal of Saul of Tarsus. Perhaps others would require the intervention of God, but not these men.

Add to this the concept of any god offering a sacrifice is counter to man’s understanding of the way things work. Yet, this is exactly how Paul describes God’s action in Jesus. He offered Him as the sacrifice for the sins of humanity. To the question of why God would do this, the answer “He demonstrated His love for us” is given. The gods of literature, and even among the other world religions, seem to despise humans and their sinful actions. The God of Christianity, on the other hand, loves this sinful humanity. Man’s efforts amount to nothing. His self-sufficiency comes up short. He can’t do anything to earn God’s favor. Everything is accomplished because of God’s love for His creation. Even in the midst of judgment, the love and heart of God is evident.

References

Sprunger, M. J. (n.d.). Belief Comparisons of the World’s Major Religions. Retreived from: http://www.urantiabook.org/archive/readers/religion_belief_comparisons.htm on April 2, 2014.

Holding out for a Hero!

HOLDING OUT FOR A HERO

Humanity loves and longs for true heroes. One of the traits present in older literary texts is man’s infatuation with heroes and heroines. Writing, theater, folk lore, and contemporary entertainments are replete with epic stories of daring rescues, challenges, triumphs, and tragedies. The Oscar Award ceremony recently highlighted this fascination with the heroic in the montage of hero scenes presented during the program. (To see video follow this hyperlink or enter the URL in your browser: http://screencrush.com/heroes-montage-2014-oscars/)

Based on evidence gleaned from ancient texts, such as Homer’s Iliad and Odyssey, The Epic of Gilgamesh, and Virgil’s Aeneid, hero worship has been around for ages. Wayfaring wanderers facing trials and tasks that no man could overcome, except by the intervention of a supernatural force, is an element that appears frequently in the lines of these stories. Mortals capable of performing tasks often reserved for the immortal is a recurring refrain that captures the hope of humanity that man may one day have the potential to rise to a higher level of experience in life.

Interplay of the Mortal and Immortal

Ironically, the same immortal powers who determine to aid the mortals in conquest are also often to blame for the hardships that they encounter. As Penelope and Telemachus pined for the husband and father, they assumed long dead, Odysseus was prevented from returning to his beloved land and family by the vengeful machinations of the god Poseidon and the lustful desire of Calypso. Instead, he was left wistfully weeping for home upon a cliff towering above the far off island. Eventually the other gods take pity on the forlorn hero, because of his courage and honor, by devising a plan to return him home despite the intentions of the offended deity. In addition, through a series of events and challenges, orchestrated by the Olympians, Telemachus grows from a scared and bullied boy into a strong and mature man.

Ultimately, the shipwrecked warrior is allowed to return to his home and family in Ithaca. Secretly returned to his family and disguised by the goddess Athena, Odysseus exacts his revenge, slaying the squatting suitors who had designs on claiming his rightful place in his home and with his wife. Because of his honor, his desire for family and country, and his bravery in the face on impossible obstacles, Odysseus is a hero for the ages.

The World Loves Hero Stories

Whether originally told in the lands of the Greek, Hebrew, Asian, Chinese, Roman, German, Scandinavian, Celtic, Australian, or American cultures, possible sources of hero stories circle the globe. From Hercules in Roman mythology, Thor among the Norse gods, American legends and tall tales of the men in the Wild West, and even the comic adventures of Crocodile Dundee from the back country of Australia, there are myriad stories of conquest, betrayal, heroic deeds, and warrior songs. Plentiful are the romantic fictions where the hero saves the day and woos the fair damsel’s heart. Readers of all ages and cultures seem to long for these stories of men and women who are larger than life.

The Bible offers hero stories of men who performed miraculous feats through the agency of God’s presence and power of His spirit. One such hero would be mighty Samson (Judges 13-16). Samson was born different and set apart for special assignment by God. Blessed with great strength, Samson won many battles and brought great victories against the Philistines. Samson, however, also lost battles that every human faces. The battle against pride and self-aggrandizement comes, and Samson falls. The battle of lust and sensual desire comes, and Samson falls. The wounds of those battles leave Samson bald, blind, and bound. In the end, however, the hero rises one last time in a feat of strength and total sacrifice and his final performance in the closing act of the drama of the hero’s life “brings down the house.”

Are There Still Heroes in Contemporary Culture?

Bonnie Tyler’s 1984 hit from the soundtrack of the movie “Footloose” reveals how this ancient infatuation with the characteristics of gods and heroes continues as she asks,

“Where have all the good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where’s the street-wise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?
Isn’t there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and turn and dream of what I need”

(Steinman & Pitchford, 1984).

Ms. Tyler was holding out for a hero. According to her query, the traits of these mortals who defy the odds, and occasionally the gods, appeared to be lacking in the world. Her song is at the same time a mournful lament and a fervent plea.

Where have all the good men gone? Certainly, if one is looking for “white knights on fiery steeds,” there may be a lack of that specific display of heroism. The deeds of valor that the ancient world of myth and legend applaud do not regularly appear on the broadcasts of the daily cable news program.

I contend, however, that heroism is not a misty image in ancient literature. True heroes are alive in our modern world. They face obstacles and rise above them. Life’s circumstances challenge them, and they meet the challenge. Disaster strikes and they respond. Terror bears its fearsome fangs and they answer, sacrificially accepting its sting.

“Let’s Roll!”

On a sunny Tuesday morning in early September, Todd Beamer boarded a plane in Newark, NJ bound for San Francisco. Beamer and the other 37 passengers on that flight, along with several crewmembers, had no idea that they would soon face a terrible challenge and have to make a critical decision that would result in a high cost, but an even greater value in terms of innocent lives spared.

Shortly after taking off that morning, hijackers took control of that flight and three others over the United States. Within minutes, the hijackers intentionally flew two of those planes into both Twin Towers in New York City. A third was purposely crashed into the side of The Pentagon in Washington, DC. News of the events that morning reached the passengers on Beamer’s flight through telephone communication. It became clear that their flight would also be used as a weapon against an unsuspecting target on the ground. Determined “not be pawns in the hijackers’ suicidal plot” (McKinnon, 2001) Beamer and the other hostages rose up and fought their captors. One can only speculate what exactly transpired in the plane. What we do know is that the aircraft, initially aimed at a target in Washington, potentially the White House, began to fly erratically through the sky before mysteriously crashing in a field in Pennsylvania, killing everyone aboard, far from the terrorist’s intended target.

The tragic events of 9/11 are etched in the memories of all who endured that terrifying day in American history, riveted to the news programs that brought us the latest details. Beamer’s last recorded words, “Let’s Roll!” captured the nature of a hero’s heart and garnered the attention and affection of the world. His words became a slogan that characterized the renewed sense of patriotism and rally cry for action felt throughout the country. Indeed, the passengers of flight 93 who sacrificed themselves to fight back earned a seat at the hero’s banquet, along with the many others who acted bravely and sacrificed so much to give others a chance to live on that day.

Recognizing the Everyday Heroes

Odysseus and Aeneas demonstrate impossible feats and amazing displays of strength and courage However, these actions are not the only traits that make a person a hero. One can see true heroism in the ordinary lives of people who live lives with integrity, honor, humility, and service. If you ask the family of Todd Beamer, they will tell you that he was a hero long before he gained notoriety by his sacrifice on 9/11. According to Beamer’s wife, Lisa, her family was well aware of the “kind of person Todd was. We know he’s in heaven. He was saved. Just knowing that when the crisis came up he maintained the same character we all knew, it’s a testament to what real faith means” (McKinnon, 2001).

There are often simple acts of bravery, service and sacrifice that we take for granted. A person reaching out to an outcast is a hero. A student who confronts to the school bully is a hero. A first responder holding the hands of a terrified passenger in a wrecked car is a hero. A person who holds the door for another with an armload of groceries is a hero. The donor whose gift of blood saves the life of a disaster victim is a hero. Heroic deeds do not have a standard they must measure up to in order to be considered heroic. These actions simply have to be viewed as heroic by the one who benefits from the act, and others who bear witness to it.

The World is Still Holding out for a Hero

Why are stories about heroes and heroines so popular still today? Perhaps it is because the world still needs heroes. Humanity still longs for someone heroic to rise up and claim victory. As long as tragedy continues to be a part of the human experience, humanity will long for, and even create stories about, heroes.

This very drive and hunger in humankind for a hero is a trait that God can use to draw men to the greatest hero ever to live and die, Jesus Christ. This heavenly Hero wrestled with the power of sin in the path of the full fury of the one true and holy God and was victorious, gaining, through His sacrifice, eternal life in heaven for all who would believe. If someone is going to hold out for a hero, invite them to look to the bloodied cross, the empty grave, and the heavenly throne. Invite them to look to Jesus!

References

McKinnon, J. (2001) The phone line from Flight 93 was still open when a GTE operator heard Todd Beamer say: ‘Are you guys ready? Let’s roll.’ Printed in the Post-Gazette. September 16, 2001. Retrieved from: http://old.post-gazette.com/headlines/20010916phonecallnat3p3.asp

Romano, N. (2014). Heroes Montage From the 2014 Oscars retrieved from http://screencrush.com/heroes-montage-2014-oscars/ on March 25, 2014.

Steinman, J. & Pitchford, D. (1984). Holding out for a Hero [Recorded by Bonnie Tyler]. On Footloose Soundtrack. Washington, DC: Columbia Records.

Passion and Romance from Antiquity to Now

-Dave Bentley

(photo from: http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/tag/love)

Disclaimer: Please note that the following article contains clear descriptions of passion, lust, desire and sex and may not be acceptable to all readers.  If you are offended by these subjects please do not read this article.  This is an attempt to show, in a tasteful and cultured way, how these elements have been part of love and romance specifically in marriage from the beginning of time.  Sadly, humanity has distorted and abused what was intended from the start to bring unity and intimacy so that now they more often bring division and shame

Love in Its Many Forms

Love is a confusing and complicated subject. Just asking the meaning of love can lead to deep and debated discussion. The Greek language uses four different words to relate to differing levels of love. Agape, a love built on commitment and unconditional acceptance, occasionally called the “Christ love.” Phileo is something akin to brotherly love or affection and friendship. Storge is the more binding love of parents, children, and other familial connection.

To this noble list, we blush to add the hot sultry love that is often the subject of whispered conversation. Eros is the steamy love of physical attraction, sexual desire, and human sensuality. This Greek word forms the root of the term erotic. Sadly, this word is often used to refer to something far removed from its original purity and passion intended in the beginning of male and female relations. Understanding human nature and varied needs, and the divine design intended by the creator can elevate Eros from its position in the shadows to the pinnacle of passion and purity intended to be experienced by husband and wife.

Ancient Answers to Contemporary Questions

Modern society strives to instruct young people in love, but often leaves them confused and bewildered as it seeks to secularize, sanitize, socialize and sexualize the subject, while failing to spiritualize it by connecting love to its source. Forty years ago Dr. James Dobson (1975) wrote that young people, through education, media, and peer pressure, were being “taught to confuse the real thing with infatuation and to idealize marriage into something it can never be” (p. 84). Perhaps the best advice one can offer these love hungry youths, seeking answers concerning love and romance in relationships, is to direct them back to the wisdom of historic texts. This age-old sage advice is not limited just to the teachings of the Scriptures, but is also found in the experiences of loves through the ages.

Ancient poetry and literature offer a telling glimpse into love and romance that contemporary humanity may not realize was present millennia ago. Stories told in modern movies and novellas often relate a kind of utilitarian relationship that existed in the form of arranged marriages, lacking in love and romance, for the primary purpose of bringing forth offspring, providing work hands, and developing community. This perspective, however, does not seem present in ancient love poems and stories of antiquity. In fact, these lyrics and tales speak of a naked and expressive passion that existed between men and women and illustrates how the needs, drives, and loves of each gender were articulated long before any contemplation that men are Martians and women Venusian. (Gray, 2012).

The First Love Lyrics

The first love song spoken from a man to a woman was uttered immediately after the creation of man’s compliment, woman. I do not know what the linguistic sounds of the song were, but the intent is evident. The creator had fostered, on purpose, a deep desire in the man for a suitable companion. His intent was that man would find in the mate God would create the completion that he realized was lacking. The account appears in Genesis 2:20-25.

For Adam no suitable helper was found. So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh. Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.
     The man said,
“This is now bone of my bones
     and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called ‘woman, ‘
     for she was taken out of man.”
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh (New International Version).

One student of Literature, Whitney Bonheim, (Bonheim, 2014) advanced the following consideration in a discussion related to romantic love and the creation of Adam and Eve. She commented that Eve was not created in the same way God created Adam, perhaps as evidence of God’s intent to reveal in the marriage union the design of love itself. Having Eve fashioned from components taken from Adam illustrates the physical and emotional elements of romantic and committed love between man and woman. Regarding the unique design of the romantic and sexual union of man and woman Bonheim writes,

“that love is created of two beings, connected from the start. Just as man was created in the likeness of God, Eve was created from the body of Adam, holding within her flesh the divine love that had been issued to humankind by the Creator” (Retrieved 3/20/14).

Humanity continues to strive for social connection, relationship, and love precisely because we have been designed and created to love and be loved.

Following the introduction of the first couple in the Garden of Eden there is this addendum about the initial purity and passion that humanity experienced, prior to the entry of sin and rebellion in to the “Good” of God’s creation:

The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame (Genesis 2.25).

Unfortunately, the purity of this sacred moment would not be long-lived. Genesis 3.7-8 finds our inaugural couple hastily covering their nakedness and hiding from the approaching footsteps of the divine Creator. Never again would the kind of unashamed physical and relational intimacy they had known in the beginning exist between man and woman. Sin shattered the divinely devised relationship. Shame and condemnation drove human sexuality into hiding, known henceforth only in darkened bedrooms behind closed doors, thus distorting the gift by which God had intended to demonstrate the deep internal love that He has for His creation. As rebellious humanity fled to their hiding place, their action brought distance and division in place of intimacy with each other and with God. Even after experiencing the redemption of Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection, the pure intimacy of Genesis 2 remains elusive The sin nature of “flesh” continues to linger even in those released, for whom “there is therefore now no condemnation” (Romans 8.1).

Romance and Love: A Mingling of Sights and Sighs

In spite of the shame that sin introduced into the realm of human sexuality, humanity continues to hunger for love and sexual fulfillment. The ancient texts of love poems relate that longing in even the earliest of manuscripts. Physical passion and longing for romance grace each pen-stroke. In “Last night, as I, the queen, was shining bright” these steamy words comprise three lines:

“While we by the moonlight indulge our passion, I will prepare for you a bed pure, sweet, and noble, Will while away the sweet time with you in joyful fulfillment” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 42).

This oldest of ancient texts reveals a depth of passion that breaks through the expectation of a utilitarian love and romance. Indulging passions and joyful fulfillment are not the dry lack-“lust”er words that one might associate with historic romance. Add to sentiments such as these this brief passage from “The Epic of Gilgamesh” and a reader may find they need to fan themselves because of the heat and humidity produced by such erotic passion.

Shamhat unclutched her bosom, exposed her sex, and he took in her voluptuousness.
She was not restrained, but took his energy.
She spread out her robe and he lay upon her,
she performed for the primitive the task of womankind.
His lust groaned over her;
for six days and seven nights Enkidu stayed aroused,
and had intercourse with the harlot
until he was sated with her charms (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 62).

These old texts offer more, however, than just erotic images of sex and physical pleasure. In fact, there appears to be much affection and commitment demonstrated in these ancient texts. Consider this line from “The Voice of the turtledove speaks out,” as the lovers offer this greeting card worthy sentiment.

“We said: I shall never be far away from you while my hand is in your hand, and I shall stroll with you in every favorite place” (Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 44).

Another thing that these historic love songs illustrate is the difference between the drives and needs men and women. Gary Chapman (1992) wrote a bestselling book on relationships called The Five Love Languages. Borrowing from his years of counseling couples he delineated the communication and reception of love in such a way as to fit into five basic categories: (1) Physical touch; (2) Quality time; (3) Words of affirmation; (4) Acts of service; and (5) Receiving gifts. In some way, each person on the planet will fit in one or two of these categories in regard to how they communicate and receive love. When I first read this book I thought the message was revolutionary and provided new insight. However, these ancient poems and love songs offer evidence of the presence of these “love languages” in how they communicate love and romance from the male and female perspective.

Men, as most modern advertisers are obviously aware, are often captivated and infatuated with the vision of beauty, attracted by the physical, before learning what lies beneath the surface of woman. Women, on the other hand tend to seek security and provision, in addition to romance and feeling. She would like to be wooed, whereas the man needs to be wowed.

“One, the lady love without a duplicate” is a poem brimming with physical descriptions. My assumption is that a man with a specific woman in mind wrote this poem. Consider this example from the poem:

Her buttocks droop when her waist is girt,
her legs reveal her perfection;
her steps are pleasing when she walks the earth,
she takes my heart in her embrace.

She turns the head of every man,
all captivated at the sight of her;
everyone who embraces her rejoices,
for he has become the most successful of lovers

(Damrosch & Pike, 2009, p. 44-45).

The very vivid description of the subject’s physical appearance and identification as the prize of the successful lover suggests man’s drive to conquest.

Further evidence of the poetic reference to the physical drives of man is the fourth chapter of the Song of Songs which offers an expressively erotic image in the description of the woman. In a very sensual passage, the author engages the senses of sight, smell, touch and taste in the course of these verses, and if one considers the sounds of wind, the rippling of water in a fountain, and the subtle smack of lips in a kiss, the sense of hearing is present as well.

Conclusion

Romantic and sensual love is evident in the most ancient of texts. These early writings capture a pure and passionately erotic love vividly expressed between man and woman. Unfortunately, just using the word erotic in modern society conjures up thoughts and images of scandalous impurity.

The Creator’s intent and design, however, was for humanity to express and experience love in a deep and intimate way, as evident from the physical construction of our bodies and the emotional structure of our hearts and minds. He wanted us to love and be loved in return. He has made us with the capacity for love on all levels. Perhaps it is the longing for a return to purity that drives us to read love stories and watch romantic films. We have been internally wired for love and long to have that activated in us.

References:

Bonheim, W. (2014) Discussion Board Post for ENG656 at Liberty University Online.

Retrieved from: http://learn.liberty.edu/webapps/portal/frameset.jsp?tab_tab_group_id=_2_1&url=/webapps/blackboard/execute/courseMain?course_id=_11067_1 on March 20, 2014.

Chapman, G. (1992). The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt

Commitment to Your Mate. Chicago, IL: Northfield Publishing.

Damrosch, D. & Pike D. L. (2009). The Longman Anthology: World Literature.

(Vol. A. 2nd. Ed.) New York, NY: Pearson.

Dobson, J. (1975). What Wives with their Husbands Knew about Women.

Wheaton, IL: Tyndale.

Gray, J. (2012). Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus. New York, NY:

Harper Collins Publishing.

Directives for Disciples: The Beatitudes

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MATTHEW SERIES: THE KING AND HIS KINGDOM

The Beatitudes: Directives For Disciples (Message 4)

Matthew 5:6

Blessed are those who

HUNGER and THIRST for RIGHTEOUSNESS,

for they will be FILLED.

DEFINITION: WHAT IT MEANS TO HUNGER & THIRST

We Can’t Comprehend That Kind Of Hunger:

Not just any hunger, but the hunger of a man who hadn’t eaten in a week and didn’t know from where his next meal would come. A man who could probably only eat meat once a month if he was lucky.

We Can’t Comprehend That Kind Of Thirst:

The kind of thirst that comes from having sand in your throat and nostrils, in the heat of the dry dessert, with no cold water tap in sight, let alone a stream or a pond from which a small relief could be found.

Psalms 42.1-2

1 As the deer PANTS for streams of water,
     so my soul PANTS for you, O God.
2 My soul THIRSTS for God, for the living God.
     When can I go and meet with God?

To hunger and thirst for righteousness would therefore be

  • Intense (a matter of life or death)
  • All consuming (consuming time, resources, efforts, passions)
  • Challenging (all the beatitudes are a challenge)

APPLICATION: RIGHTEOUSNESS IN 2014

Question: What is Righteousness? If we are to hunger and thirst for something, perhaps we should know what that something is.

Life Application Bible Commentary on RIGHTEOUSNESS:

Refers to a personal righteousness—being so filled with God that the person completely does God’s will, without tripping up, sinning, making mistakes, and disappointing God. Righteousness refers to total discipleship and complete obedience. It may also refer to righteousness for the entire world—an end to the sin and evil that fill it.

Those who hunger and thirst for righteousness experience

that longing in at least three forms:

  • The desire to be righteous—to be forgiven and accepted by God; right with God.
  • The desire to do what is right—do what God commands
  • The desire to see right done—to help bring about God’s will in the world.

The Greek word refers to a “WHOLE RIGHTEOUSNESS” (APPLICATION)

  • PERMEATES! – Affects every aspect of life
    • public and private
    • work and home
    • All the time, Every Day…Not just Sundays
  • PENETRATES! – A righteousness on the inside as well as the outside
  • DEMONSTRATES! A righteousness according to the kingdom of God, not man.

A Warning To The “Well Fed” Luke 6:20-26 (Focus on v. 25)

20 Looking at his disciples, he said:
“Blessed are you who are poor,
     for yours is the kingdom of God.
21 Blessed are you who hunger now,
     for you will be satisfied.
Blessed are you who weep now,
     for you will laugh.
22 Blessed are you when men hate you,
     when they exclude you and insult you
     and reject your name as evil,
     because of the Son of Man.
23 “Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their fathers treated the prophets.

24 “But woe to you who are rich,
     for you have already received your comfort.
25 Woe to you who are well fed now,
     for you will go hungry.
Woe to you who laugh now,
     for you will mourn and weep.
26 Woe to you when all men speak well of you,
     for that is how their fathers treated the false prophets.

“WOE” is the Exact Opposite of “BLESSED”

  • They trust in their own righteousness.
    • “Apart from Jesus my righteousness is like filthy rags”
  • Appear to be righteous on the outside, but inside…

SATISFACTION – They Will be Filled

The word for “filled” (chortasthēsontai) means to feed or to fatten cattle from the word for fodder or grass like Mark 6:39 “green grass” (chortos chlōros).

—Robertson, A. T. Word Pictures in the New Testament

  • Deeply Satisfied
  • Longings and Desires Met
  • Hunger and Thirst Abated

INVITATION

  • Empty yourself and become hungry and thirsty for righteousness.
    • Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness
  • Remember that you will indeed be satisfied, don’t ever stop hungering…

Pastor’s Letter of Appreciation to FBC Wallingford, VT

A Letter from Pastor Dave to members and friends of
First Baptist Church in Wallingford, Vermont

March 21, 2014

Dear Church Family,

I hope that you won’t mind if I gush just a little in the affection and appreciation that I have for our church family.  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you for your prayers and support.  Thank you for your understanding.  Thank you for the love that you show to your new pastor and his family in so many ways.  Thank you for your commitment to the Lord and His ministry here in Wallingford.  You have blessed and touched my heart.

When we started ministry here at the beginning of the year I had already committed to take three challenging classes during this semester at Liberty University.  I had no idea, however, how difficult the eight weeks would be, especially the last part of the journey.  The past few weeks have put me through the wringer physically, emotionally, and spiritually.  Consider:

•    Mom and Step Dad with cancer surgery  within 10 days of each other
•    Three Major Writing Assignments Due in extremely difficult classes
•    Stormy weather and slick roads
•    Unexpected Car repairs courtesy of “The Grand Canyon” of pot holes

Please believe me when I say, I am not complaining.  In fact, this has become an opportunity to praise God for His grace and strength in the midst of difficulty.  I know that I could not have managed all that has happened without His presence and your prayers. 

I know that, if I had been aware in the Fall what challenges would come in the winter I would have changed my plans dramatically.  However, God has allowed me to endure this to remind me of His sufficiency for every circumstance.  For example, the classes I took for the first eight weeks of the term were very technical and demanding classes related to advanced grammar and the origin and spread of the English language.  The readings were among the most difficult I have ever had to do.  The writing required was more than I have ever had to do for any class.  In the end I had three major writing assignments due at the close of the courses.  I said a number of times in the closing days that I would be fortunate to get a C in the classes because I had not been able to devote the time and effort to them I felt they needed.  However, the papers were graded and the final report is as follows. 

•    On the biggest and most difficult assignment, which I was sure I would just squeak by on, I received a near perfect grade and was heralded as “the best in the class!”
•    On the other two assignments, though I wasn’t as concerned with them, I received a perfect score and a near perfect score. 
•    My final grade was a solid A!

If I sound like I’m boasting it’s because I am.  I boast in God who has once again amazed me in taking care of every detail and providing what I needed most exactly when it was needed.  I boast in my new church family who has prayerfully supported their new pastor and lifted me up in their prayers.  I boast in my wife who has endured several weeks of having me so fully engaged in these writing assignments in every spare moment that I have been of little help to her in her endeavors.  I have reason to boast because God is so good, and He has surrounded me with people who are wonderful.

Many Blessings,
Pastor Dave

Directives for Disciples: The Beatitudes

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(Part of: MATTHEW SERMON SERIES: THE KING AND HIS KINGDOM)

INTRODUCTION TO SERIES:

Because we are currently in a sermon series, this is essentially a “Series in a Series.”

Typical “When & Then thinking.”

  • “When I get a good job, then I’ll be happy.”
  • “When I find the right mate, then I’ll be happy.”
  • “When I have kids, then I’ll be happy.”
  • “When the kids leave home, then I’ll be happy.”

We think outward circumstances bring contentment.

But Jesus tells us the opposite is true. He insists that happiness doesn’t come from the external circumstances, but rather from an internal condition..

IT WILL REQUIRE A SHIFT IN OUR THINKING

I almost titled this series SHIFT because that’s what these verse challenge us to do, to have a shift in our common mind-set, the way that we view things.  To change how we think about success, happiness, and blessings.  Because, as we will discover in the first message of the series, much of what Jesus says brings us contentment are a complete 180 degree turn from what we often think.

DIRECTIVES FOR DISCIPLES (Part 1)

First, Understanding The Word:

Blessed (Greek: Μακάριοι – Ma-ka-ri-oi)

  • The word “blessed” means happiness.
  • The Greek word is emphatic, it means “happiness many times over.”
  • Refers to a happiness that is not conditional on circumstances

The Basic Outline of Our Messages

  • DEFINITION: What Jesus Means in What He Says
  • APPLICATION: How It Applies in our Lives Today
  • SATISFACTION: The Promise the Directive Offers

“Blessed are the poor in spirit,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

· Jesus could of hardly produced a more startling beginning.

· Happy are the poor?

THE DEFINITION – WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

What it Doesn’t Mean:

  • · “Blessed in spirit are those who are poor.” Nothing to do with possessions.
  • · Not About Self-Debasement
    • He’s not saying that happiness comes when you put yourself down. “Oh, I’m no good, I’m junk, I’m lousy.” In fact, Jesus did not die for junk. He went to the cross because you are that important to Him.

What it Does Mean:

  • To be totally dependent on God.
  • Realizing our spiritual deficiencies.
  • It means admitting I am a sinner
  • It means emptying ourselves of our selfishness.
  • In a word it is humility.

“God blesses those

WHO REALIZE THEIR NEED FOR HIM,

for the Kingdom of Heaven is given to them.

(New Living Translation)

Jesus Said it and Lived It:

Read Philippians 2.5-11

THE APPLICATION – WHY DOES IT MATTER?

Read Luke 18.18-24

Demonstrates Two Problems The Rich Young Ruler Had:

  • Thought of Himself as Good (Good teacher…I have done all that…)
  • Expected to Buy/Earn Eternal Life (What must I DO)

Elevates Why Jesus Came:

  • Pay as you go is not the way it works.
  • We don’t need a system, we need a Savior.
  • We don’t need a resume, we need a Redeemer.

Illustrates the Dilemma Mankind Faces

  • A Recognized Need – Emptiness
  • We Want to FIX IT!
  • We can’t accept that we NEED someone to do it for us.

Please grasp this principle: you are nothing without God!

THE SATISFACTION – WHAT IS THE OUTCOME?

“We “inherit THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN.”

The kingdom of heaven is not just a physical place of eternity, it is a way of life.

A Way of Life that Experiences God’s Grace.

Read James 4:6

A Way of Life that Reduces Stress.

Read Psalm 131

A Way of Life that Improves my Relationships with Others.

A Way of Life that Provides Contentment.

Take a Look at A Changed Life:

  • Saul Had Been: Legalist…Persecutor…Leader
  • AND THEN ACTS 9 HAPPENS
  • Paul Becomes: Liberator…Pastor…Servant

“Blessed are the poor in spirit

for theirs is the kingdom heaven.”

One Thing I Ask…

Something to Contemplate:

I’m asking God for one thing, only one thing: To live with him in his house my whole life long.  I’ll contemplate his beauty; I’ll study at his feet.  That’s the only
quiet, secure place in a noisy world; The perfect getaway, far from the buzz of traffic.                                     
Psalms 27:4-5 (The Message)

One thing, that’s all David wanted.  He makes an impassioned plea to live with God in the house of God.  As I considered his request this morning I believe that David was desiring more than the physical location of the house of God, but rather was seeking to dwell, to live, to abide in the constant presence of God. 

The church, where I am as I write this, is a perfect place for a little quiet and serenity, but I can’t live here.  I am going to be leaving shortly, and I want to be in God’s presence wherever I have to travel.  Thankfully, God is present in my life wherever I am, and I can fellowship with Him, speak with Him, and trust in Him no matter my location. 

So, today I join David in pleading with God, “One thing I ask, Lord, to be with you wherever I am.”